the big picture...

had the best discussion with girls... the whole idea abt a girl fitting the big picture... 

be good at cooking.. take care of parents... give time to husband.. give time to in laws.. must be a super mom for her child.. should have a social life n friends n party n crap.. should be good at work... earn in a competitive way.. take time for herself... keep the house prim n proper... must have and pursue some hobby for herself.. be good at that hobby as well!! decorate the house with fresh cut flowers...  be good at bed.. and finally should maintain her figure... take care of her skin and hair... n be presentable n all :P